The Laws of Life - 1

 Source: Luiz Gasparetto e Lúcio Morigi, Calunga revela As Leis da Vida,  Gráfica Vida e Consciência, 2015. ISBN: 978-85-7722-443-2

Our freedom is only acquired with knowledge. Knowledge brings the lucidity of light, enlightenment, and the darkness ends up leaving. If we know how to deal with things, we can walk. Where there is knowledge, knowledge, enlightenment, there is no pain. All pain is the result of ignorance, of darkness, where there is no light. The more knowledge we have about life, the more we manage, the more we have freedom, power and progress.

What is law? Law is what makes things work. That's how it works. Law is function. Law is what regulates, and regulation is a function. Life only works within certain laws. If we want to improve and progress, we need to act within these laws. Where there is ignorance, there is pain. Where there is knowledge and the practice of this knowledge, the result is always good. Let's now get to know the Ten Laws of Life.

1. Law of Uniqueness: Everything is Unique

Everything is unique, therefore, there is nothing like it in the entire universe. You are unique, the mosquito is unique, the stone is unique. Two tree leaves, in all the forests of the world, are also not the same. If divine creativity is infinite, what is the reason for repeating two things? There are similar ones, but not the same. Similarity is necessary in life, in nature, for its very functionality.

Bringing this law to our behavior and our daily attitudes, if absolutely nothing is the same, no comparison makes any sense. That makes all the difference. Comparing oneself, then, is unnatural, and everything that is against nature is harmful. Comparing yourself to others is rejecting yourself, devaluing yourself, not accepting your individuality, an essential attribute of the spirit.

There are only two sexes - male and female - however, there are as many sexuality as there are people on the planet. Each individual expresses their sexuality in their own way. No two heterosexuals or two homosexuals have the same sexuality. Sexuality is absolutely individual.

Equality does not exist, but for the very functionality of life, there is similarity. Similar is never equal. When we say that like attracts like, it's not true. It's like-minded people who come together. Affines look for proximity, not equality.

The greatest harm you can do to yourself is to compare yourself, because then you will be rejecting yourself, not accepting yourself, denying yourself. If comparison is a great illusion that does a lot of harm, then any kind of complex, especially the inferiority complex, is not justified.

There is no point in avoiding it, you will have a unique life, everything that will happen will be unique and will only happen that way to you. Constantly say: "I am unique; I am not equal to anyone; I am not more or less than anyone else, I am just different; my individuality is sacred; I respect and accept myself the way I am; what others think of me only interests them".

The universe is the life where the experience, the contrasts begin to come true. For there to be awareness there needs to be contrast. There are no fireworks displays at noon. The fact that everything is different in the universe is what makes consciousness exist. Evil only exists due to the existence of good. Without contrast, there is no perception, there is no consciousness. Reality is contrast.

Do you want stability? You will not have! The environment doesn't allow anything to stand still. Everything is interdependent, so there is no way to stop. The environment, through its contrasts, forces change. That's why the indifference of others is the worst thing for someone. In indifference there is no contrast.

Voluntary forgetfulness, that is, pretending not to see, causes a reaction, which is pain. In this case, pain is the stimulus for the person to realize: look what you are doing against yourself! The pain is a great contrast. There is life in pain. The sensory system, whether to produce pleasure or to produce pain, is life.

As for affectivity, I exist because you exist. You not only exist here in front of me, but you are also different from me. If all beings were equal, I would have no idea of myself. I exist because we are different. It's because you're different from me that I see myself.

Affection is contact. In my touch there was contrast. This contrast, this contact produces a reaction in the spirit, a sensation that is called affection. Affection is contrast. Affection only happens inside you. It's your sensations that matter. Only your sensations, your feelings, are yours. Why do you want other people's feelings so much? They won't be of any use. True affection and love are spontaneous. It does not depend on the conditions of the other. Now, does the other person need to change to deserve your affection? If each person is unique, if each person has their own sacred individuality, how can you make demands on others? What's the point of having an external affective manifestation if you don't sustain yourself emotionally from the inside?

What attracts or repels people is the energetic pattern. Everyone likes to be with a nourishing person. A person is nutritious because their affection flows, and it flows because they respect their individuality and do not demand that others sacrifice theirs to satisfy their desires.

Affection is touch, touch is contrast and contrast makes you exist, perceive, feel. Existing is the state of perception of consciousness. The more you feel touch, the more you are alive, the more you exist. The blessing of your life is the existence of these people who are all different from you, because the more they are them, the more you are you. Life surrounds you with different things so that you can be more yourself, and it will bring you a lot of different things, otherwise you sleep and turn off your consciousness.

Therefore, you will never have peace of mind. One thing ends, another comes. "Ah, but now would I calm down?" No. If you calm down, you sleep, you stop progress. This way, the stimulus is constant. If you do not go with intelligence, it will inevitably  go with pain, with discomfort. For the universe, this pain is an affectionate touch.

The differences, which are basically touches, are the manifestation of divine love. So, when you accept your fellow man as he is, you make him exist. When you reject him, you kill him. If you want to kill something in yourself, like someone else's evil, just be indifferent.

Indifference is a great human weapon of enormous utility, which you can use for good, against human evil. In indifference, you remove the contrast and, without contrast, the thing ceases to exist. Instead of remaining in the revolt, in the hatred that corrodes you, throws indifference into it. In indifference you kill any evil in the bud. This is evolving through intelligence. This is spiritual elegance. This is compassion. When you don't use intelligence to evolve, something else appears in its place, pain, since evolution is inevitable. Just like yesterday, it won't happen again. One situation will never be the same as another, because the variables involved are countless.

From the concept that everything is unique, that nothing is the same, we can draw a very important conclusion: there is not just one reality. There is a reality that is there, that of common sense, resulting from the sum of all individual beliefs on the planet. However, there are as many realities as there are people on the planet, because your reality is individual. My reality will never be the same as yours.

I will not deny that common reality has its harshness. It is the effect of individual beliefs that, in general, are totally illusory. What can you expect from an illusion? Pain. But your reality doesn’t have to align with this common reality. Everyone has their individual and different beliefs, which will make their individual reality be this or that way. Most realities are similar because people cultivate similar beliefs.

In this way, you can and should build a good reality, regardless of what is out there. To do this, just change your beliefs and attitudes. If you do this, everything good that common reality has, and there are a lot of good things, you will enjoy, and everything bad it has will not interfere with your private reality.

When we talk about the law of uniqueness, another absurdity that stands out is the "ideal". Ideal is what each person puts into their idea. It's for him, not for you. Every ideology is absurd, it only works for those who invented it, maybe. There is no ideal, but the individual, the natural.

For this reason, communism is tremendous nonsense. Communism is an aberration in the face of human nature, of sacred individuality, and, without a doubt, every communist regime is doomed to failure, as is already happening. You are not ordinary. Nobody is ordinary.

Idealization is an affront to the law of unity, of individuality. No one is an example, model, standard for anyone, because each one is unique and incomparable. No one is normal, because normality does not exist when it comes to the law of uniqueness. When you think like this, you are subject to the obligation to play roles contrary to the nature of your spirit in order not to look ugly, in order to adapt to society. In other words, you are dependent on the other person’s gaze and opinion. Then don't complain if you are manipulated, stolen and rejected by them. Every inferiority complex originates from the confrontation between the ideal and the natural.

Nature won't make you sick if you don't harm it. All suffering comes from the disconnection of your individuality, that is, all your power is fixed outside and is manipulated by it.

Intelligence shows you that the principle of individuality is the principle of lucidity. If you weren't unique, you wouldn't feel like you existed. Therefore, the superior life, the better life, is the acceptance of individualities, of differences and not of the ideal, of models, of standards. Not only must we accept it, we must cultivate it.

Those who appreciate differences evolve faster, are full of life. The more you say yes to differences, the more life says yes to what you want. "Ah, everyone is on their own path, as I am on mine, which is unique." So, your individuality grows, you acquire more ownership of yourself, and the more ownership of yourself, the more firmness and success you obtain, not to mention that you become increasingly immune to all kinds of dense energy from the incarnate or disembodied.

When you accept differences, you end up causing a cosmic phenomenon of balance called fraternity. Everything is in your favor and you are in favor of everything. Fraternity is the acceptance of living with differences. It is the appreciation of differences. Given this, in your family you will appreciate that they are different, that they think differently. So their differences have been a blessing to you. Intolerance and stubbornness are no longer part of you. No more fights and arguments. From there, to extend it to all of humanity, it's just a short hop.

Have you ever thought if the law of uniqueness, which enshrines individuality, prevailed in the world? Wars would be the first to end. Fanaticism and religious radicalism would go away. The end of any type of prejudice would be declared and fraternity would reign supreme on a planet of peace and prosperity.

Don't compare yourself to other people. There is nothing like you in the entire universe. Everything is unique. You are also unique. That's why you are incomparable. It's stupid to compare. The ideal is stupidity. The ideal is only good for those who idealized it. Every ideology is only good for those who invented it. There is no ideal, but the individual. Only those who are different are successful, because the spirit supports what is most sacred, which is their individuality. When you respect your individuality, you are naturally being different. No one should serve as an example to anyone else, because the other person is also unique.

The common reality is very harsh, but there is not just one reality. There are as many realities as there are people on the planet. Realities are unique and individual. Your reality is you who make according to your beliefs. The reality that is there is the sum of all individual realities. Of course it is difficult and tough, because what is most out there are people believing in fantasies, in illusions, in negativity. The result of this is dense common sense. But you don't necessarily need to be bound by common sense. Change your beliefs, change your views, change your attitudes, and then you no longer belong to the mass grave, without ceasing to live with this reality.

Don't confuse sex with sexuality. There are only two sexes: male and female. Sexuality, everyone has their own. No two people on the planet have the same sexuality. Sexuality is something individual. Your sexuality is unique, so accept it and treat it with affection. Only then will you get along sexually, emotionally, spiritually and socially.

There is no luck, there is no bad luck, there are no coincidences, there is no chance. What exists is individuality and how each person is dealing with it.