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 IMPROPER SELF-LOVE

Self-love is something like a type of substance that needs to be experienced in the right dose, because to a certain extent it is necessary and fundamental to move as humans between heaven and earth with physical and mental health, but if the dose is wrong, self-love becomes toxic and destructive, and what's more, it happens that, like everything else that happens in our civilization today, the trivialization of the concept leads people to believe that they would not be able to love others if they did not have self-love themselves, and that only after loving themselves would they achieve the feat of loving someone else.

And so, the dose of self-love allowed by those who believe in the trivialization of concepts is so toxic that it is confused with selfish self-centeredness full of self, convinced that there is nothing more to know in the universe than oneself.

And the recipe seems so right that no one realizes that its results are uncertain, firstly because loving others, despite needing a dose of self-love, also involves the exercise of going out of ourselves, overcoming, to discover someone, the selfish self-centeredness to which we dedicate ourselves most of the time.

Secondly, because self-love, in its toxic dose, which is more common than we imagine, for building a relationship leads to inappropriate conditions, that of looking for someone who loves us the same way we love ourselves.

If someone is to love us as we love ourselves, the construction of the relationship is resolved by buying a mirror and staying with us all the time, ending all this with self-love becoming unsuitable for relationships.

Tasks and duties are inevitable, so it's time for your soul to reconcile with this dimension so as not to add weight to what it no longer needs. Doing it with joy and lightness is the best option, nothing less than that.